Hard Question or Conversation Starter

Over on Live Journal they have a feature to inspire writing. The profile page that appears after logging in includes a note on the page called "What do you have to say?" with an open ended question or topic. The question that appeared recently was:

What makes you unique?

The first time I saw this I blew it off with a shrug and thought "who says everyone is unique?".

I have a theory that challenging questions that contain both the word 'you' and either 'who, what, why, when, where' tend to have a bit of a negative undertone. In this case the implication is that the person is supposed to defend that they are in fact unique. An alternative response is to attack the question as flawed, that was my first response.

Then I thought about conversation starters. Different settings have different thresholds of acceptablility. Imagine you are at a family Christmas party, shouting this question at your cousin across the dinner table probably isn't going to get a response. Maybe you'd get a response if you were having a little side conversation, just one or two other people. The question would almost certainly get a response as pillow talk. The more personal the setting the more likely the question will be recieved as a geniuine interested inquiry rather than as a challenge.

The question works well as a blog entry starter because the writing of a blog entry can be a very personal setting. The responses might be slanted based on the topic of the blog or the audience the blog is appealing to. This blog has (a) no topic and (b) appeals to an indeterminante demographic (aka whoever stumbles across it, and 'appeals' is almost certainly the wrong word in that case). It also works well on Live Journal because the entries tend to be, well, journals- not blogs.

The distinction between the two is a topic for another post.

Windmills

While road tripping across Iowa we came across a couple windmill farms. They just look cool.

Holloween

Holloween came and went without much excitement. Far too busy doing other things this year, next year the hollowed eve should get more attention. Take this picture for example. I walk by this yard often while walking the dog and didn't even notice the poor witch that apparently had miscalculated her approach. These are the kind of things a person should notice. If they go unnoticed, I think that is an indicator you are far too busy.